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As women today
it's all too easy to let our sensuality wane. After all
we have demanding careers
kids who need our love and attention
and a million errands to run and chores to do. The intimate relationships we have with our husbands or boyfriends often take a backseat to the activities that make up our life. It doesn't take much
though
to rediscover our sensuality and reignite our passion - some sizzling hot lingerie will do the trick almost every time.

You don't have to be Shirley of Hollywood or memorize the Kama Sutra to add some spice to your love life. You really just need a bit of time
some privacy
and some sizzling hot lingerie.

Time

No one ever has enough time
so you have to make it a point to carve out some time for you and your husband to be together. If you don't have kids
it's relatively easy to set aside one night a month for "date night." If you do have kids
well
that's why grandparents were invented. A sleepover at grandma's
your sister's house
or a good friend's house will give you and your mate an opportunity to have a leisurely evening
night
and morning alone. That should rekindle the flames!

Privacy

Privacy is paramount when it comes to a successful date night. That means more than tucking the kids away at a relative's house. It also means a commitment to spending the evening without interruption: an agreement to not answer the house phone
turn off your cell phones
and resist the temptation to sneak off to check your email. If you don't think that's possible
consider spending the night at a local hotel. You may only be a few miles from home
but it will give you the psychological space to truly relax and enjoy yourself.

Sizzling Hot Lingerie

There's no denying that men are visual creatures
and some sexy lingerie will go a long way to rekindle the passion you share. Surprise him by "slipping into something more comfortable" and coming out in a bustier
corset
baby doll
or camisole. You never know - he may have a few ideas of his own and be wearing men's sexy underwear
have rose petals sprinkled on the bed
or have flavored massage oil on the nightstand.

Regularly Indulging Your Sensuality

Every woman knows how hard it is to switch roles at a moment's notice. It's difficult to fix dinner
get the kids bathed and put to bed
and then - snap - turn into a seductress. Try too hard
and you'll either give up or start resenting your mate.

One of the things that makes it easier to kindle the passion that you and your husband share is to regularly indulge your sensuality. That might mean carving out some alone time to go on a walk by yourself
to take a bubble bath
or to have a regular manicure and pedicure. It can also mean wearing lingerie everyday that makes you feel sensuous. Your co-workers don't need to know that you're wearing a sexy bra and panty set under your business suit
or that you're wearing stockings and garters instead of pantyhose. Your husband doesn't even have to know. The important thing is that you'll know
and that you'll carry an awareness of your sensuality with you throughout the day. Over time
you'll find it much easier to switch from mommy to lover at the end of the day. And when you do
you'll have your sizzling hot lingerie to show off to your husband.