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Here’s a secret for all the women out there (if they haven’t figured it out already): men are visual creatures. Just like there are verbal learners and visual learners
all the men out there sometimes need for you to paint them a picture in order to better understand a task. Here’s proof to this revelation: how often have you told your husband that the car is making a “thumping” noise. Does he ever believe you? Probably not
until he sees for himself that the cause of whatever is making the car thump. See
visual learner. The same goes in the bedroom. Sometimes
our men don’t quite understand what we want
so we have to paint them a picture
and we can do so with deliciously sexy lingerie.

How many men can resist a woman in any type of sexy lingerie? There is something about lace
ribbons
feathers
leather
or not-so-subtle sheer material that drives a man wild. And honestly
who can blame him? Who doesn’t look fabulous is oh-so-sexy lingerie? The answer is no one. Regardless how you feel about your body
sexy lingerie is the best way to begin loving yourself again (and maybe even get some loving in the process). After all
if women do not feel feminine in sexy lingerie
why do we purchase these fantastic frocks instead of the ubiquitous underwear? The truth very well may be that women love sexy lingerie just as much as men.

Outside factors can play a huge part in your sex life
including your job and responsibilities. Just because the spark may be hidden beneath a bundle of problems
stresses
and worries does not mean that it has gone out! People are too easy consumed with their problems to take the hints dropped by another individual about meeting their needs. Instead of dropping hints or becoming aggravated when your partner seems to blatantly ignore your specific needs
send him a visual message. Dress up in a drop dead gorgeous baby doll and meet him at the door. It’s guaranteed to send him over the edge.

One popular gift for birthdays
anniversaries
and holidays (especially the man-dreaded St. Valentine’s Day) is sexy lingerie. If you are tired of receiving ill-fitting
itchy
uncomfortable
and all around dreadful-looking lingerie
tell your spouse that this year
the gift is on you. This way
you can ensure that you get exactly what you want and your partner will be a happy boy once he sees you in your latest getup. Another option is to leave him a blatant visual hint: send him the webpage of the specific piece of sexy lingerie you want along with a not-so-subtle message of “buy us this.”

If you are surprising your man with a stunningly sexy lingerie spread
be sure to have all your elements into play. No one wants to enjoy the benefits of wearing provocative lingerie and then have to finish the dishes. Create and entire evening
day
or weekend where you can spend together without having to worry about the outside world. Throw in some jaw-dropping lingerie and seal the deal. Who could possibly complain? Remember
there is nothing in the world so important that it hides your spark
after all
that spark is one of the reasons that brought the two of you together in the first place.

So
what have we learned today? First
men are visual creatures and need to see in order to believe. Second
sexy lingerie is hands down the best way to convey to your man exactly what you want and need. After that
what more could you ask for?